For those of you who absolutely need everything scheduled, here are some things to put in your day-timer and keep you busy. Or it can help you keep track of what your wedding planner is doing for all the money she is charging you.

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9 to 12 months out

  • Announce Engagement
  • Select Wedding Date
  • Hire wedding consultant/coordinator
  • Determine type of wedding: location, theme, # of guests, formality, time of day
  • Determine budget & how expenses will be shared
  • Buy a daytimer to keep track of appointments & events
  • Develop a record keeping system for payments
  • Create an approximate # guest list
  • Decide if you will be inviting children or not
  • Select and reserve ceremony site
  • Select and book Officiant/Priest/Minister/Rabbi
  • Select and book reception location
  • Select and order bridal gown
  • Determine colour scheme
  • If ceremony or reception is at a home, arrange for any home improvements
  • Obtain, passports, visas, birth certificates, any documents need for travel and/or marriage licenses

6 to 9 months out

  • Select and book caterer, if needed
  • Select and book photographer
  • Select wedding party
  • Give wedding party a list of their responsibilities
  • Select and buy attire or bridesmaids & flower girl
  • Select and buy attire for mothers of the bride and groom
  • Select and book ceremony musicians
  • Select and book live band or DJ for reception
  • Select and book videography
  • Select and book florist
  • Register for your wedding gifts (this can be done sooner)

4 to 6 months out

  • Schedule fittings for custom made bridesmaids gowns
  • Arrange marriage prep-courses, if necessary
  • Reserve rental items
  • Select and book decorator
  • Finalize an A and B list of guests
  • Select and order invitations and other wedding stationary
  • Set date, time and location for rehearsal dinner
  • Select and book honeymoon night suite
  • Arrange accommodations for out-of-town guests
  • Start planning your honeymoon
  • Shop for your wedding gifts to each other
  • Shop for your wedding gifts to your wedding party
  • Shop for your wedding gifts to your parents
  • Buy shoes, lingerie and accessories for the bride
  • Buy shoes and accessories for the bridesmaids
  • Select and order wedding bands

2 to 4 months

  • Take formal engagement picture
  • Select and order wedding cake
  • Order party favours/bombonniere
  • Select and order decorations
  • Purchase honeymoon attire and luggage
  • Select and book wedding day transportation
  • Start addressing your invitations
  • Plan activities for out-of-town guests (optional)
  • Go on trials and book wedding day hair and makeup. Bring your headpiece and wear a white shirt
  • Obtain marriage license (expires in 3 months)
  • Send out your invitations
  • Select ceremony readers
  • Select ushers to seat your guests
  • Select guest book attendant
  • Select your MC
  • Mail invitations to shower
  • Get photography permit, if needed

6 to 8 weeks

  • Maintain a record of RSVP’s and early wedding gifts
  • Maintain a record of shower gifts and send thank you’s
  • Purchase all ceremony and reception accessories: guest book, toasting glasses, garter, ring pillow, etc.
  • Select and reserve wedding attire for all gentlemen
  • Mail invitations to rehearsal dinner
  • Plan bridesmaid luncheon
  • Select your something old, new, borrowed, blue

2 to 6 weeks

  • Finalize all food and beverages for wedding
  • Finalize all ceremony details with Officiant
  • Finalize all rehearsal arrangements
  • Finalize all floral arrangements
  • Final fittings for yourself and bridesmaids
  • Make a wedding day itinerary
  • Give a copy of the itinerary to your wedding party and vendors
  • Finalize all details with all your vendors
  • Decide order of receiving line and head table setting
  • Contact guest that haven’t replied
  • Pick up wedding rings
  • Give photographer a photo checklist
  • Visit reception site for floor plan
  • Create reception seating plan
  • Give musicians a list of your music selection
  • Inform attendants when and where to pick up attire
  • Determine VIP seating for ceremony seating
  • Print out seating cards
  • Pick up honeymoon tickets

1 week

  • Give caterer/reception venue final tally of guests
  • Pack of your honeymoon
  • Wrap reception flavours/bombonniere
  • Arrange mail collection while you are on honeymoon

Day of Rehersal Dinner

  • Drop all wedding accessories and decor off at ceremony and reception locations
  • Make sure you bring all gifts that will be handed out at dinner
  • Make sure you have all final payments in envelopes for wedding day
  • Pack over night bag for honeymoon suite
  • Make sure wedding party has their itinerary
  • Make sure gentlemen have black socks
  • Go to church for rehearsal
  • Review VIP seating with ushers at ceremony location

Day of the Wedding

  • Most of the details will be on your wedding day itinerary
  • Eat breakfast
  • Pack anything remaining on your “To Bring” list in cars
  • Make sure Maid of Honour has groom’s ring and Best Man has bride’s ring
  • Make sure you have your marriage license, photo permit and Special Occasions Permit, if needed
  • Put your engagement ring on your right hand
  • Use your wedding day itinerary to get you through the day on some sort of trouble
  • Remember to look around and soak in the views of the day you planned so long and hard for.


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